What Happens to Your Voice When You Don't Feel Safe
Most leaders know they want their people to feel safe enough to speak honestly. Few realize that psychological safety is not primarily a structural thing. It is a physiological one, and it begins in the leader's own body. Drawing on Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory and the neuroscience of co-regulation, this article explores what your nervous system is already broadcasting to every person in the room with you, and what to do about it.
The Body Knows
Something happens in the body when a message was written by no one in particular. Your nervous system picks it up before your mind does…a small withdrawal, a quiet loss of presence. This piece is about that feeling, what causes it, and what it means for how you communicate. It covers the real AI tells (the ones that erode trust without a single dramatic moment), when using AI is genuinely fine, what it's doing to your team's culture, and the one question worth asking before you hit send on anything.
What “The Field” Actually Is…
The Field for Human Communication™ is introduced as a different kind of work, one that focuses on closing that gap by grounding communication in self-awareness, nervous system regulation, and embodied truth. The result is more authentic leadership, deeper trust, and communication that actually reflects who you are.
I Built the Field for Myself, First.
Mary Huron Hunter didn't build The Field from a business plan. She built it from a reckoning…with the version of herself she'd been performing for years. This is that story, and an invitation to begin again. Mary built The Field for herself, first. And for everyone else, next.
If You Build It, Will They Come?
Mary reflects on Field of Dreams as a story about listening to the quiet, persistent voice that asks us to build something that doesn’t logically make sense, but feels deeply right. Through Ray Kinsella’s journey, she invites us to consider the callings in our own lives that arrive without guarantees or clear paths. At its heart, it’s about courage, trust, and choosing to follow what’s asking to be created.
The FIELD FOR HUMAN COMMUNICATION
The Field for Human Communication explores the relational space where communication actually happens. Mary suggests that most breakdowns aren’t about words, but about what’s happening underneath…our nervous systems, attention, and patterns. It introduces “The Field” as a way to understand and navigate interactions with more awareness, leading to stronger, more honest, and more resilient relationships.
The Future is Feminine: Embodied Leadership for a World in Transition
This essay explores the unraveling of outdated systems and the emergence of a new way of leading. It reframes “the future is feminine” as an invitation into embodied, relational leadership rooted in connection and long-term wellbeing. At its core, it’s about reconnecting body, voice, and communication to shape a more human future.
Breaking the Apology Habit: The Power of NOT Saying, “I’m Sorry”
In this insightful blog post, we delve into the phenomenon of over-apologizing, particularly among women in professional and personal settings. Many of us don’t realize how frequently we say “sorry” and the subtle effects it can have on our presence and authority. The article explores the deep-rooted relationship between our nervous systems and our communication habits, shedding light on how stress responses can lead to apologetic language.
The Embodied Communication CODE
Most communication struggles aren’t about words; they happen when the nervous system is overwhelmed. This essay explores why scripts fall apart under pressure and offers embodied communication as a more grounded, human approach. When presence leads, communication becomes clearer, more trustworthy, and more connected.
The BASICS of Relational Communication
Communication is the foundation of all relationships, including the one we have with ourselves.
What is Sacred Speech?
Understanding sacred speech can facilitate more harmony, tolerance and generosity in our relationships.
Wild Horses
One of the most essential ingredients to communication that is truthful, has integrity and builds trust is consent.
Communication that Heals Starts with this Simple Act…
In our culture, we are quick to react and respond, sometimes harshly or negatively, when someone shares their grievances about us, with us. Read on to learn one simple approach that may immediately help and heal …